You’ve got your HavenDesire toy and you’re looking to treat it well from the very first use: bravo 👏 Here’s a beginner’s guide on how to clean your sex toys safely and gently, so they stay in top form and take care of you in return.
🌟 Why clean?🌟
- Clean before and after every use, even if it looks clean – your body’s natural fluids may harbor invisible bacteria or yeast. Proper cleaning not only lowers infection risk but also helps your toy stay fresh and long‑lasting.
- Wrong cleaning methods (e.g. harsh detergents) can actually damage materials and shorten your toy’s lifespan.
🧼 Know your toy: porcelain or sponge?🧼
| Toy Material Category | Can it be fully sterilized? | Examples |
| Non‑porous | ✅ Yes | 100 % silicone, glass, stainless steel, hard ABS plastic100% |
| Porous | ❌ | Jelly/PVC, TPE/TPR, latex, rubber, “realistic skin” |
- Porous materials absorb fluid. Even when cleaned, they may retain microbes, so extra care is advised – like using condoms or designating these toys for solo use.
- Non‑porous materials can be sanitized via boiling or a dishwasher top rack after routine cleaning.
🚿 Eva’s quick daily clean routine🚿
- Remove batteries or unplug USB – and make sure no moisture touches the charging port.
- Pre-rinse with warm water (not scalding), then lather gently with a mild, fragrance‑free, oil‑free liquid soap. Massage for at least 30 seconds, especially around joints and textures—using a toothbrush reserved just for toys is helpful.
- Rinse thoroughly, ensuring all soap is gone.
- Pat dry with a clean, lint‑free towel, air dry completely.
- Store fully dry in a clean, cool space – ideally wrapped in its own cotton bag so it doesn’t stick to other toys, especially porous ones.
✨ When to level up to extra sanitization✨
Use these methods when:
- You’re sharing toys
- You’ve had a yeast infection, UTI, or just extra cautious care
Options (only for non‑porous toys):
- UV sterilizer pouches – a 3–5‑minute session kills ~99.9 % of germs. Make sure no rubber grips shadow parts of the toy.
- Boiling – submerge 100% glass, stainless steel or silicone toys in boiling water for 3–5 minutes (use tongs!). Let air dry before touching it.
- Top-rack dishwasher (without detergent) can be safe for certain toys but check HavenDesire’s provided material info first.
⚠️ Special care for tricky toys⚠️
Anal toys
Always assume they may carry bacteria; spray, scrub all nooks and wipe twice, especially if sharing. After each use, clean ASAP – germs multiply fast.
Strokers & masturbator sleeves
Start by flushing the tunnel under water, then follow with soap or a water‑based cleaner. Make sure to dry completely inside and out. No tight folds should trap moisture.
Realistic “skin” toys (TPE/TPR)
Once fully dry, dust with cornstarch or special skin renewal powder. Store in a sealed bag—this helps prevent tackiness and material breakdown.
🧴 Toy cleaners: are they worth it?🧴
Yes – pH-balanced, alcohol/paraben-free cleaners can simplify the job:
- Spray, wait a few seconds, wipe off with a damp cloth.
- Excellent for toys that aren’t fully waterproof; less water contact helps preserve internal electronics.
💡 Why not reuse old, worn toys?💡
Over time, especially with porous toys, micro‑abrasion can release tiny particles—some may even include microplastics or plasticizers that can be absorbed by the body. Fading textures, cracks, or residual odor are good signs it’s time to retire your toy.
❌ Cleaning pitfalls to avoid❌
- Never soak battery compartments or clog charging holes.
- Avoid oils, silicone lubes or petroleum-based soaps—they can degrade surface texture or harden¹.
- Do not combine fragrance or harsh cleaners with porous toys—they may cause allergic irritation.
🛍 Quick checklist before next use🛍
- ⁃ [ ] Batteries removed or toy unplugged?⁃ [ ]
- ⁃ [ ] Cleaned and rinsed thoroughly?⁃ [ ]
- ⁃ [ ] Fully air dried?⁃ [ ]
- ⁃ [ ] Stored in fresh dedicated pouch?⁃ [ ]
- ⁃ [ ] No fading, crack or tackiness?⁃ [ ]
If the answer isn’t yes to all, it’s better to clean again or consider replacing that toy.
💬 Devina’s closing note💬
Treat your HavenDesire toy as a health ally: consistent care means safer play, better sensations, and lasting happiness. You’re doing everything right. Stay curious, stay clean, and feel free to reach out when you’re ready to explore new shapes, textures, or maintenance tips!
With warmth,
Devina @ HavenDesire